So here I was, groveling over my missed deadline of my
submission to my blog. All upset over the fact that” I can’t stay consistent”
and “why do I even try” popped up. Then it happened.
I woke up on Monday
feeling like I could get things done despite my deadline miss … and as the day
went on, the deadline missed moved to the back burner to sit and wait its
return. The day was absolutely beautiful and productive. I settled into getting
grades done, lectures updated, and office visits checked off. I was happy to
track all my food and water intake. I even took a walk when my Fitbit told me
too, which is great because I usually never listen. Yes, I was on point,
feeling strong and productive.
My alarm went off. Time to head to class. It’s a
hot day here in SoCal and all the students are displaying sings of an early
summer. Tank tops and shorts for everyone. I make my usual eye contact, topped
with a smile, as I pass each student wondering what class they are off too. I
hit the unusual doorway for my class and I am greeted by one of my students who
was waiting for me outside before class … and it happened, all the strength and
productivity I had was needed.
I stood and listened as one of my students told
me that he had cancer and would need to drop the class. Shock. Sorrow. Fear.
Compassion. All covered me from head to toe. You’re not supposed to hug your
students, it’s a Title IX violation but I did. His tears were almost the death
of me, as I thought about his family and what they could be going through. He
apologized for the inconvenience. What, what?! I don’t think so. I’m thinking
this is the most awful thing that could happen to someone and he sure in the
hell didn’t need to apologize for having to drop my class! Devastated. I hugged
him again and told him to be strong and fight, fight, fight. I am absolutely
praying for him and his family, especially his mom.
So now, it’s Tuesday and I
am thinking back on the news. Here was my student, twenty years old in the
fight of his life and I was down and out over a missed deadline for something
that’s not really that important. It’s a missed deadline, DAMN! Move on! Enjoy
every moment you have to love, give, smile, hope, pray, teach, cry, be, live, and know that not
all deadlines are created equal. There are so many things that I have gained
from this news, so many perspectives. The one that I walk away with, the one that
helps my broken heart, he shared the news with me, in person. … Yep, my
perspective gets an added view.
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